
Spirituality
Spiritual revelations do not arrive from thinking long & hard about Divinity. They come through silencing our thoughts, moving our ego out of the way, and opening up to the quiet, mysterious, spiritual realm that is always here with us. The world of soul is here and now, superimposed and woven through the world of the five sense. It doesn't take belief. It is Reality itself. You must only learn to see beyond the veils.
“There is another world, but it is in this one."
–W.B. Yeats

Spirituality
Spiritual revelations do not arrive from thinking long & hard about Divinity. They come through silencing our thoughts, moving our ego out of the way, and opening up to the quiet, mysterious, spiritual realm that is always here with us. The world of soul is here and now, superimposed and woven through the world of the five sense. It doesn't take belief. It is Reality itself. You must only learn to see beyond the veils.
“There is another world, but it is in this one."
–W.B. Yeats

Spirituality
Spiritual revelations do not arrive from thinking long & hard about Divinity. They come through silencing our thoughts, moving our ego out of the way, and opening up to the quiet, mysterious, spiritual realm that is always here with us. The world of soul is here and now, superimposed and woven through the world of the five sense. It doesn't take belief. It is Reality itself. You must only learn to see beyond the veils.
“There is another world, but it is in this one."
–W.B. Yeats

Healing
Healing occurs in the mind, heart, spirit, and body. Any system of self-improvement that does not address all of these essential components of the human being is lacking. I believe this so strongly I’ll repeat it: Any attempt to heal only one aspect of yourself without addressing the others, will ultimately lead to imbalance and unhappiness.

Spiritual Guidance
“The world is full of magic things, patiently waiting for our senses to grow sharper.”
W.B. Yeats
When we quiet our thoughts and emotions, and open to the subtle realms within & around us, we begin to recognize that all of life is a spiritual mystery. This mystery is woven through the denser world of the five senses, yet always here—available for our witnessing. We need only to sharpen our 'sight' to perceive it.
As author Tom Cheetham brought to the foreground of my consciousness years ago: it’s been a long time since many of us have truly experienced the world. Instead, we experience a constriction of it—a filtered selection, lacking breadth and depth. We move cautiously, checking ourselves against what is 'allowed’ and what is 'known.' Then we cast that perception outward ahead of ourselves, before stepping into it. In this way, we are moving through a closed world that we have mistaken for infinity.
So what happens when we become fully present, encountering reality without overlays—without our conditioning, beliefs, desires, cultural programming, expectations, trauma, survival-based fears, self-loathing, delusions of grandeur, toxic positivity, or any of the other narratives we accumulate along the way? What happens when we look at the world through zero filters, without any defenses or identities? What happens is: we see.
This takes great courage, which is why we often avoid looking too closely, why we allow protective buffers between ourselves and reality. Nietzsche understood this as a preservative instinct that he called "the will to superficiality"—an embracing of the trivial, and an avoidance of anything troubling, profound, or anomalous. By focusing on the superficial, humans become more "flighty, lightsome, and false"—unwilling to dive beneath the surface-level appearances.
Nietzsche believed that this protected against the chance one might "get a hold of the truth too soon, before they have become strong enough, tough enough, artist enough to handle it." He further wrote: "It might be a basic characteristic of existence that those who know [the truth] completely would perish, in which case the strength of a spirit should be measured according to how much of the truth one could still barely endure—or to put it more clearly, to what degree one would require it to be thinned down, shrouded, sweetened, blunted, falsified."



Not a Path, but an Orientation
So how do we begin the journey of seeing clearly, and of humbly encountering truth? It may begin by questioning our attachment to any pre-constructed organization of truth. As Krishnamurti famously said, "Truth is a pathless land." I've included an excerpt from one of his talks below.
I maintain that Truth is a pathless land, and you cannot approach it by any path whatsoever, by any religion, by any sect. That is my point of view, and I adhere to that absolutely and unconditionally. Truth, being limitless, unconditioned, unapproachable by any path whatsoever, cannot be organized; nor should any organization be formed to lead or to coerce people along any particular path. If you first understand that, then you will see how impossible it is to organize a belief. A belief is purely an individual matter, and you cannot and must not organize it. If you do, it becomes dead, crystallized; it becomes a creed, a sect, a religion, to be imposed on others. This is what everyone throughout the world is attempting to do. Truth is narrowed down and made a plaything for those who are weak, for those who are only momentarily discontented. Truth cannot be brought down, rather the individual must make the effort to ascend to it. You cannot bring the mountain-top to the valley. If you would attain to the mountain-top you must pass through the valley, climb the steeps, unafraid of the dangerous precipices.
-Krishnamurti, August 3, 1929
The adventure of meeting truth often coincides with an honest examination of all the identities and constructs we cling to—consciously or unconsciously. From the moment we're born, we begin accumulating these identifications, and by adulthood, they can feel inseparable from who we are, making them difficult to question, loosen, or release.
For some people, the idea of existing without a fixed identity—even temporarily—can feel unsettling or even terrifying. But in my experience, those identity-less moments are among the most peaceful, primordial, and spacious states of being! As my friend Jana once said, "If you can embrace the fact that you're in uncharted lands...and you remain open, without labels, without boundaries...good job. You're doing a very good job."
To explore this idea more playfully and visually, I created a simple, symbolic way of looking at the various spheres from which we tend to acquire identity. You can think of each sphere as a veil that must be lifted in order to perceive reality with greater clarity.
These identities, whether self-prescribed or inherited from family, culture, or society, are not inherently wrong or harmful. Nor do they need to be rejected or destroyed. It is only when we become rigidly attached to, or deluded by, them that our perception becomes narrowed or obscured, and our capacity for genuine, personal evolution becomes constrained.
NOTHINGNESS





EGO
FAMILY
TRIBE
HUMAN

ANYTHING
Veils of Identity
1) Ego. A healthy ego is necessary to safely navigate the world, and to recognize one's unique purpose & meaning. However, excessive ego-identification can make an individual self-centered, rigid, and lacking in compassion. At worst, an un-healthy ego manifests as narcissism, psychopathology, and a total disregard for the interconnected eco-system beyond the self.
2) Family. It is essential to examine the ideals, belief systems, and relationship models we inherited during early childhood development. This includes conditioning around self-worth, love, relationships, safety, money, power, cultural identity, and personal potential. To mature spiritually, we must lovingly confront and, when necessary, transform these inherited imprints. Unexamined attachment to these familiar patterns—whether out of ignorance, 'blood loyalty', or unresolved wounds—can stunt development.
3) Tribe. A tribe can be a religious or political group, a profession, an ethnicity, a nationality, or any other formal or informal identity group. For example: 'biologists', 'women', 'CEOs', 'people who meditate', 'athletes', etc. There is nothing wrong with tribes; one could easily argue we need tribes to survive. But if we become too dogmatic about our tribe's ideologies, or we elevate our group’s beliefs, priorities, and worldviews above others, we risk dogmatism and forget our shared human and planetary kinship. We fail to honor the simple truth that we are all in this together.
4) Human. Imagining the universe through a non-human perspective is difficult to fathom because everything we've ever explored, defined, believed, or speculated has come through the filter of the human mind. But we must acknowledge that humans are only one thread in a much greater, cosmic tapestry. A truly honest understanding of the human being's placement within the universe requires a complete de-humanization of the truth. If we fail to honor this, then our reality, god(s), and perceptions of truth will always be diluted, altered, and anthropomorphic. So how can we begin to glimpse a broader consciousness? We can do our best through awareness and conscious contemplation. A good starting point is to meditate with non-human beings: rocks, trees, stars, animals, air, deities. These meditations can help us remember that the universe is not human-centered.
5) Anything. Let's imagine there's a way to identify with something that is essentially unknown, but still possibly is. Perhaps it's a god, a deity, an angel, an essence, or an alien—something quite mysterious and entirely other. I’m including this sphere to honor the possibility that some people identify with something vast, mysterious, and other—without presuming to define what that is.
6) Nothingness. Non-identity. This is the final and most elusive space. Non-form. Non-thought. Śūnyatā. The abyss-like emptiness that exists prior to, and beyond, all manifestation. In this sphere, there are no forms of being...not even thought-forms. There is only void. In the diagram, I could also refer to this as Pure Consciousness, though even that label is only useful if such consciousness contains nothing but nothing—not even the idea of a witness. This is the reason why the final sphere is the most peaceful state, because no concept of "I" exists, as there is no active mind with which to imagine "I" into existence. While impossible to describe this ineffable state, it can be touched, sometimes spontaneously, other times through meditation, stillness, and communion with emptiness. To experience this state is not to 'know more', but for all knowing to dissolve.
A Note on How I Use the Word 'Soul'
Whenever I talk about soul, I'm referring to that spark at the center of the diagram—the one that appears like a star. The dark emptiness surrounding that soul-star is the same emptiness of return beyond identity. Further down on this page, I'll introduce the idea of a mythopoetic identity, or your truest soul-centered self. The mythopoetic identity is none of the identities acquired along your life's journey (i.e. none of the spheres in the diagram) but rather something you always were, prior to those states of being. Aligning with that identity is an extraordinarily powerful way to live. As mentioned, I'll touch on this later, briefly, but Bill Plotkin wrote an entire, long book about it that I highly recommend: The Journey of Soul Initiation.
A Vast Reality
Here’s another, entirely different, way to think about what it means to see clearly. Let's assume the true aim of a spiritual seeker is to exist in truth— in Ultimate Reality without any constrictions. This reality is not only profound, but it's too much to behold all at once! As mortal beings, we're designed to prioritize the processing of mundane, survival-based information so we can navigate each day safely. But the goal of those who crave truth is to widen the funnel of perception—to allow not only the necessary data about our environment and survival needs to pass through, but the countless other miracles, primal forces, realms, and oddities that are always available to us.
For a more poetic & mythic expression of this idea, I invite you to read Stephen Mitchell's translation of the epic, ancient Hindu text, the Bhagavad Gita. In my favorite chapter, Chapter Eleven, the warrior Arjuna is reluctantly heading into battle in a chariot driven by Krishna (the Supreme Being in the Hindu tradition). Up until this point, Krishna has only appeared to Arjuna in the form of a humble charioteer, but now, Arjuna longs to see Krishna's truest form. He says:
"You have told me in detail
the origin and dissolution
of all things, and have described
your own vast, imperishable Being.
I do not doubt that you are
what you say you are, Lord. And yet
I want to see for myself
the splendor of your ultimate form.
If you think I am strong enough,
worthy enough, to endure it,
grant me now, Lord, a vision
of your vast, imperishable Self."
What follows is one of the most breathtaking passages in spiritual literature. Krishna reveals himself as all that is—a vision so radiant, terrifying, and incomprehensibly vast that Arjuna nearly perishes while attempting to behold it! Finally, mercifully, Krishna returns to his "mild and pleasant" form, as Arjuna's charioteer once again. And Arjuna has been transformed forever.
If you've never read the Gita, I hope you do one day. It's beautiful.
Before moving on, I'd like to share one of my favorite spiritual poems by Max Ehrmann. My other adored spiritual poets are Rilke—especially the Duino Elegies—Rumi, and Kabir.

And here is one of my favorite panels from the Apocalypse Tapestry in Angers, France. It depicts John symbolically consuming the Word of God, as described in the Book of Revelations. They were some hard truths to swallow, but he went for it...









“I saw the angel in the marble and carved until I set him free.”
Michelangelo
Areas of Guidance
I help support clients through:
Spiritual Transformation
Deep inner change & soul embodiment
Integration of mystical experiences & expanded awareness
Dark nights of the soul & crises of faith
Pre and post ayahuasca counseling
Finding peace within sacred emptiness
Relational & Communal Healing
Sacred partnerships; relationships as a spiritual practice
Shamanic, hapé, or medicinal sound ceremonies
Leaving or healing from oppressive religious groups or cults
Balancing renunciation/solitude with intimacy/belonging
Balancing activism with acceptance in a troubled world
Identity, Purpose, & Energetic Alignment
Discovering & embodying your mythopoetic identity
Cultivating & sustaining chi/life-force energy
Learning to see clearly within yourself & others
Intuition development
Working Across Belief Systems
I work with clients from a wide range of spiritual and non-spiritual backgrounds. Your beliefs will always be respected, and you won’t be expected to change them at any time during our work together. That said, if you've chosen me as your guide, chances are you're open to exploring new perspectives that deepen your understanding of yourself and the world.
I was raised Catholic, but I consider myself a spiritual "free agent," unattached to any single doctrine or tradition—though I've explored many. I'm comfortable working with Christians, Buddhists, Jews, atheists, Taoists, plant medicine practitioners, existentialists, Muslims, Sufis, Mormons, non-dualists, agnostics, pagans, druids, priestesses—and however else you may identify. This same openness applies to gender identity, sexual orientation, race, cultural background, and beyond.
Living with Your Soul as Your Guide
If you become very still inside, and listen beyond the noise of your mind and the fluctuations of emotion, you may begin to discern a subtle, compassionate, undeniable knowing. It does not clamor for attention or impose itself upon you, for it is entirely without violence. This is the voice of your truth—your intuition—your soul speaking to you.
Oftentimes, the mind and emotions are so loud & persistent that you may default to listening to them... simply because they make the most racket! But in moments of great decision, the soul understands what neither mind nor emotions can conceive. That is why it's so important to learn to hear—and trust—the guidance of your soul.
You can think of your soul as the voice of God within you—or, if that language doesn’t resonate, as the deepest current of truth moving through you. It exists beyond thoughts, emotions, conditioning, and even linear time. The soul maintains a perspective that knows what will bring your life the deepest sense of peace, satisfaction, and meaning. And unlike many other internal and external influences, it does not lead you astray.
If you enjoy more speculative or symbolic ways of understanding consciousness, you might imagine intuition as a set of instructions encoded in your DNA by the original programmers themselves—evolutionary guidance installed by the alien-architects who set this whole, wild, cosmic ride into motion! Those orchestraters of the elaborate cosmic play want you to evolve. Their aim is for you to uncover and listen to those instructions, so that you can become as aware and powerful as them.
Or, if you're drawn to the idea of life as a vast simulation, think of yourself as an avatar—and of intuition as messages sent from your original self in the 'real' world, guiding you back toward truth. Who knows...perhaps if you listen closely enough and follow the guidance you hear, you'll finally find your way out of the simulation.
However you frame it, this benevolent inner guidance is one of the wisest, most trustworthy allies available to you. Following it is not an act of blind faith, but of profound self-trust and self-love.
One of the most common reasons people come to me is a longing to reconnect with the quiet, steady wisdom of their soul. I’m always honored to support them in learning to listen to and trust such a valuable part of their inner world.




Your Mythopoetic Identity
Soul is more than a guiding voice or a feeling we connect with in moments of stillness. It can also be understood as your deepest essence. Eco-depth psychologist Bill Plotkin refers to an individual's unique soul identity as their mythopoetic identity—an identity not defined by surface-level labels such as mother, father, spouse, Christian, African-American, politician, rabbi, artist, teacher, athlete, entrepreneur, podcast host, survivor, or community leader. While these roles can carry great meaning and value, they are not, according to Plotkin, ultimately who you are at the level of the soul.
Plotkin suggests that it is through discovering and embodying our mythopoetic self that we can fully inhabit our deepest callings—so that every action we take in the world arises naturally as an expression of who we truly are.
In his book, The Journey of Soul Initiation, Plotkin writes that some people are fortunate enough be living in alignment with their soul identity without consciously realizing it. For them, developing more awareness of this identity helps them inhabit their unique "eco-niche" in the wider web of life, and find the most joyful, meaningful, and effective ways to offer their gifts to the world. For others—those not yet attuned to their mythopoetic identity—a descent into soul may be an essential part of their spiritual journey.
A descent into soul is an extended process that often unfolds over months or years. It involves a radical shift in consciousness and marks a transition into an entirely new stage of spiritual development. Unlike a rite of passage—which is typically a singular event or ceremony (such as puberty, pregnancy, marriage, induction into a special group, the ordination of a priest, the enthronement of a King), a descent into soul is not a singular rite or ritual that marks a change in social status or roles. It is an inner pilgrimage composed of many rites, rituals, ceremonies, deep work, and periods of introspection. Through this process, an individual transitions between entire levels of spiritual development.
In Plotkin's words, a descent into soul—discovering and merging with one’s mythopoetic identity—is "not a mere social, vocational, [or locational] severance or leave... it's the complete & conclusive undoing of one's former psychological and social identity and the definitive ending of one's belief that any and all identities rooted in social life could ever again be fundamental to who one really is."
While Plotkin encourages having an experienced guide or mentor during this transformative journey, it is not strictly required. Respected figures such as Carl Jung, for example, underwent—and documented—a decade-long descent into soul without formal guidance. The results of his journey were profound, mystical, and...genius. So yes, it is possible to go it alone. But for most people, I recommend the support of a trusted guide.
Dark Nights of the Soul
I want to include this section for anyone who may be suffering through a period of spiritual confusion, overbearing doubt, or oppressive heaviness. I realize that some of the other sections of this page may not resonate with you right now—and that's understandable. My hope is that these next few paragraphs offer you a glimmer of light, and remind you that your dark night will not last forever—nor is it without purpose and meaning.
What is a Dark Night of the Soul?
A dark night of the soul is distinct from ordinary depression, anxiety, or circumstantial grief. A spiritual dark night can be understood as a form of soul guidance—arriving when it's time to loosen beliefs, perceptions, or identities that are no longer serving your deepest becoming. Soul guidance does not always arrive as gentle insight or angelic visions; it may also come through upheaval—through stress, illness, despair, confusion, or exhaustion.
At times, a dark night emerges because we haven't been listening to our soul's more subtle nudges. Other times, it arrives entirely out of our control, and nothing we could have done differently would have altered the passage we now find ourselves moving through.
During a spiritual dark night—which will likely last much longer than a single night—you may face the deep contents of your inner world while confronting your fears, integrating shadow, and challenging false 'gods' that do not relinquish their hold without a fight. True spiritual maturation begins when we release our tendencies toward fantasy, attachment, domination, trauma-identification, manipulation, selfishness, and distorted perceptions of reality. This process requires courage and stamina, but the perseverance is worth it because you are clearing space to allow more truth, grace, and Divinity to move through you.
For many, a dark night of the soul is not merely a crisis—it is an initiation along their spiritual journey. Mystics, shamans, healers— those called to deep spiritual work—have long passed through such thresholds. As spiritual teacher Caroline Myss says: the path of the mystic demands an extraordinary capacity to bear the truth, requiring detachment from the illusions of the physical world in order to see symbolically.
Myss explains that lessons on the path of the mystic are lessons in physical, emotional, and spiritual loss & disempowerment, followed by rebirth to a new relationship to power. Through anguish and ecstasy, mystics gain access to Spirit that is so profound, they become capable of breathing Divine energy into ordinary words and acts—and they become able to heal others through genuine love and faith. Before this can occur, she notes, crossing into the underworld is necessary, so that one can understand, from lived experience, the madness, darkness, sickness, disillusionment, and suffering of humankind; for it is only from truly understanding an illness that the antidote is revealed.
The 16th-century Spanish mystic St. John of the Cross was the first to refer to name this passage as a dark night of the soul. He understood that because so few people can endure direct contact with Heaven, God strengthens them first—preparing them to receive the ultimate gift of experiencing Heaven on Earth.
Until then, remember: this too shall pass. And when it does, you'll emerge feeling more alive than ever before, with newfound wisdom, capacity, strength, clarity, and peace.
The dark night of the soul is transient, as all of existence is.
“Tenderly, I now touch all things, knowing one day we will part.”
St. John of the Cross


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